Its human nature to be attracted to others,but to have a crush on your friend’s partner is incredibly awkward.
Either way,this uncomfortable situation could be avoided.So here are four rules which EVERY guy must stick to when it comes to their friend’s lovers:
1.AVOID SOCIAL NETWORKING WITH YOUR FRIEND’S GIRLFRIEND.
Following each other on twitter or constantly communicating telephonically could make you feel “close” to each other and once you get comfortable with one another.You’re both vulnerable to that wild beast called feelings.Once that beast grows on you,escaping it is 1976-a struggle my friend!
2.AVOID HANGING OUT WITH HER ALONE.
Friend’s come in packages these days(What a world!) Welcoming a friend in your life,means also welcoming his girlfriend.Once in a while(hopefully) your buddy will bring her girlfriend to your outings.Avoid being left with her alone.If your mate’s going to the men’s room,go with him although you don’t feel like relieving yourself…or excuse yourself and go make a phone call.Even better,bring your girlfriend with.This way you’ll never be left alone with you mate’s lover.
3.DON’T GET TOO INVOLVE IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP.
Knowing every little detail about your friend’s relationship is a massive disadvantage.It puts you in a position where you’re able to see even the tiniest cracks in Mr perfect.Once you notice those cracks,believe me you could unconsciously nominate yourself to be Mr fixit.In no time,hearts will then be broken and friendship will be at stake.You don’t want this,do you?
4.PAY ATTENTION TO THE NEGATIVE.
Seeing good in people is a characteristic for an awesome trait one possess.However,in some cases eyeing on positive might ruin you and your relationship.So next time,although it sounds really ridiculous try to focus on the negative stuff about your friend’s girlfriend.She might be hot,but try to find something that’s not so hot about her.Whether its a personal trait,body feature or behavior.Find something! If not,MAKE SOMETHING UP! The point is to prevent yourself from getting personal with her.NB! NEVER share this information with your friend! He won’t take it well.You wouldn’t either.
Come on fellaz,I’m sure we can all be gentlemen enough to create our own relationships without having to ruin our friend’s.Do good!